Ladies Here Are 7 Things To Do if Your Man Cu!ms Too Early

                            

Having s*x with a man who can’t keep it
up more than a few seconds, or who c@ms within moment of p3netration can
leave you feeling flat. So,
what to you do to make sure you are also
getting yours in the bedroom?

1. Don’t ignore the elephant: The
elephant in the room, that is. Whether this is an out-of-the-blue
occurrence, or you have been dealing with this for a while, do make sure
you talk to your partner about it. However, do not bring this up in the
bedroom. Find a neutral ground and discuss openly. Let him know you
enjoy making love to him and it is because you enjoy it that you feel a
bit down when he finishes before you. If he is willing to communicate,
he might be able to pinpoint a root cause so you can both find a
solution. You can ask him what you can do to make things better. Most
men want to last longer to please their women, so he should be willing
to give you tips that will tone down his excitement.

2. Slow down: Men who c#m too early are
not big fans of qu!ck!es. The excitement and thrill might be too much
for them to contain. What works? Slow down. Keep things slow and easy.
Enjoy a gentle for3play and keep the s*x light.

3. Choose positions wisely: S*x
pos!tions where women do more of the work are usually great for men with
the quick dr@w. Go with C0wgirl, Reverse C0wgirl, or any pos!tion where
you are in charge. This also lets you slow things down or even stop if
you notice he is getting too excited. If he is in charge, he won’t be
able to stop himself.

4. Use c0nd0ms: This may not work for
all men, but a lot of men do say using c0nd0ms desensitizes them to some
extent. There are actually c0nd0ms in the market made for this purpose
too. So, if you have been going skinny dipping before now, then you
should consider getting some condoms.

5. Avoid overstimulating: S*x feels so
much hotter when you stimulate as much body parts as possible, but for a
man who cannot keep it in, the less stimulant, the better. If you
usually tease him by playing with his n!pples or other erogenous zones
during s*x, maybe you should cut back. Give him a chance to focus on
just penetration and see where that leads you.

6. Get him to tone down
masturbation/Porn: If your man is into extreme m@sturbation or
porn0graphy, it is time to get him to stop. Studies have shown that men
who watch too much p0rn find it difficult to keep things under control.
They are stimulated 24/7 so when they finally penetrate a woman, they
are already almost there, causing them not to last long. Get him to take
a break for a couple of weeks to see if this changes things.

7. Ladies first: If you have tried all
of the above and its not helping, then it’s time for him to put you
first. Get a vibr@tor or whatever you are into, have him focus on making
you c@m before penetration actually begins. He could perform oral on
you, use his hands or use the toys.

Focusing on your pleasure can keep him
from getting too hot. If you’re lucky, you can even org@sm before the
real show begins. This will make you feel less disappointed. Besides,
the fact that he has gotten you off will make him feel less pressured,
so he can relax enough and actually last longer.

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