[A MUST READ] “He is begging me to watch porn with him, but…

Why are men so fixated on watching porn? In spite of the fact that my boyfriend of nine months knows how I feel about porn, he still insists it’s not as smutty as I said it was. He keeps begging me to watch before I make up my mind, but I still believe it’s disgusting and a pervert way of having fun. What do you think?



These days, young women may feel pressured to like porn, as if it’s a pre-requisite for being sexually confident. But while some women find porn arousing and educational, others think it is demeaning or just plain unsexy. More than one woman has written that when her partner looks at porn, it makes her feel like he’s not satisfied with their sex life. In the vast majority of cases, that’s not true – for most men I’ve talked to, porn is just fantasy, not a reflection of how he feels about his partner.

Whatever the reason for your dislike of porn, you need to let your man know your fears. If after discussing it with him you want to experiment, start with mild porn. If you’re still turned off by porn, you have every right to ask him to watch it on his own and keep it out of sight.