Lifestyle! [A MUST READ] THREE (3) Sure Ways to Use Your Pe-n-i-s Properly

1. F-u-c-k with your hips, not your cock.

Fu..c-king is in the hips. It’s in the arms. It’s in the stomach. It’s in the embrace. That’s where “fu--cki..ng” comes from. It’s not in your co-ck. It’s your hips, arms, stomach, etc using your cock.

This isn’t some dance analogy thing. This is a mindset change. You’re not there to in/out with your cock. You’re there to fuck with your body and if you’re not using your body to fuck then you won’t get the same effect for either yourself or her. You won’t be able to lose yourself in the motion and so you’ll have problems with rhythm. You won’t be able to tell where she’s at because your bodies aren’t participating together. Rhythm is the orgasm maker so get into a flow. This, I believe, also helps with staying power because your mind isn’t on you, it’s on the act.

Don’t be a douche bag, endeavor to engage in the act. Be where you are doing what you’re doing.

2.  Understand the pu-s-sy.

Obviously the clitoris is the most immediate way for a woman to have an orgasm. For direction stimulation I recommend gentle grind fucking, focusing on the area where your cock meets your pelvis, intermixed with penetration aimed at the G-spot which is like three inches inside the va-gi-na on the top. It feels textured (roughish) compared to everything else so it’s easy to find. There’s also the U spot but, honestly, that’s right at the urethra and if you’re going down on her then you’ll find it. I’m almost convinced that this one was differentiated just to give people something to talk about.

But there’s also another spot known as the A spot which is where the mythical va-gi-nal orgasm lies. ‘A spot’ stands for Anterior Fornix Erogenous Zone and it’s on the front of the vagina at the very back, roughly in front of the cervix (frontside of the woman’s body aka anterior). This is also known as the ‘deep spot’ or bottoming out and it absolutely shouldn’t be taken lightly. For one thing, if you can reach back there then depending on your flow you run the very real danger of stabbing her cervix with your co-ck which serves only to produce the most pained look on your partner’s face. She will recoil and she will not be happy. The area around the cervix is se--x-ually sensitive but the cervix hates you. Don’t poke it.

3.  Your co-ck is not a weapon.

If you try to use it like a weapon with stab stabby in/out motions then you’re doing it wrong. S—e-.x is way more about massaging with your cock than it is in/out penetration.  Yes, in/out penetration is present but even that should be viewed as massage or pressure or friction. Do not think about “imma balls deep, holla” or what the fuck ever. That shit is stupid most of the time, especially when you don’t really know what response you’re going to get. The majority of what you do should be based on massage, pressure, friction. S..e--x is coaxing to orgasm, not forcing to orgasm. Below are three ways of fucking that have been universally well received in my direct experience in long term relationships. Your mileage may vary.

·                            I like the grinding style and my lady does too. It allows you to do a lot of other things with your bodies, kis-sing, caressing, etc that you can’t do in positions like dog-g-style and you can focus on the clitoris with your pelvis via your hips.

·                            If you raise your partner’s legs in missionary then two things will happen. Her v-agi-nal canal will narrow and you can apply direct pressure to the G spot. I recommend a bit of in/out motion combined with up/down motion. This comes from your hips as does f-uck-ing which I can’t repeat enough. This is putting it together. This is also the position that I’ve heard people say “makes the pu-s-sy talk.” There’s a reason they say that. It often does.

·                            For A spot stimulation I recommend nudge fu-.cking, so called because you’re not moving much at all. It’s more a matter of putting pressure on the A spot, pushing, letting off a bit, and pushing again with your co-ck rubbing against the top of the va-gi-nal canal. If your pelvis is also grinding a bit against your partner’s clitoris then this is a good place to be.

I hope it helps, for fans who has difficulty in their s—e—xual life.

Source:  Thought Catalog