And in a new
exclusive chat with Saturday
Beats, the actor poured out his heart, stating that he is not married and
he is not prepared to get married again. That he has always been the victim in
the two marriages he has had. That All the pictures we all saw on Facebook
about him getting married were all location pictures.
Akiyesi said:
Akiyesi said:
“I am not married and I am
not prepared to get married again. Since my marriage broke down, I have decided
to be alone instead of investing my love in any woman who would not appreciate
me in the first place. If I have to get married at all, I would marry a white
woman or a black woman with a white heart because they are the ones who
appreciate love. I can no longer invest my love on people who do not appreciate
it and still rub it on my face.
I am not going to say that none
of the women I was with appreciated me. Before we get into marriage, everything
is nice and smooth because we are pretending and making each other believe what
we are not. But when we get into marriage, then we see our true colour.
Marriage is like an investment;
when you put your money into a business, you would expect returns, and the
returns of marriage are peace and rest of mind. If you are going into a
marriage that would not guarantee you any of that, then it is better you do not
venture into the marriage at all. All the pictures people saw on Facebook about
me getting married were all location pictures.
I have been into only two
marriages that crashed and they all followed the same pattern and I am not
prepared to go into that kind of pain any more. The only person that can
pressure me to remarry is myself because I am the one who has been down that
road before and I am the one preserving myself from going down that line. If
you see me go into any marriage, then it means that I have fallen for my own
pressure. No one can pressure me into getting married again. I am not saying
that getting married is bad, it is wonderful if you get married to your best
friend. Sometimes I feel very lonely and have no one to console me when things
are down for me, no one says well done when things are going smoothly,” he
said.
And in a new exclusive chat with Saturday Beats,
the actor poured out his heart, stating that he is not married and he
is not prepared to get married again. That he has always been the victim
in the two marriages he has had. That All the pictures we all saw on
Facebook about him getting married were all location pictures.
Akiyesi said:
Akiyesi said:
“I am not married and I am not prepared to get married again. Since my marriage broke down, I have decided to be alone instead of investing my love in any woman who would not appreciate me in the first place. If I have to get married at all, I would marry a white woman or a black woman with a white heart because they are the ones who appreciate love. I can no longer invest my love on people who do not appreciate it and still rub it on my face.
I am not going to say that none of the women I was with appreciated me. Before we get into marriage, everything is nice and smooth because we are pretending and making each other believe what we are not. But when we get into marriage, then we see our true colour.
Marriage is like an investment; when you put your money into a business, you would expect returns, and the returns of marriage are peace and rest of mind. If you are going into a marriage that would not guarantee you any of that, then it is better you do not venture into the marriage at all. All the pictures people saw on Facebook about me getting married were all location pictures.
I have been into only two marriages that crashed and they all followed the same pattern and I am not prepared to go into that kind of pain any more. The only person that can pressure me to remarry is myself because I am the one who has been down that road before and I am the one preserving myself from going down that line. If you see me go into any marriage, then it means that I have fallen for my own pressure. No one can pressure me into getting married again. I am not saying that getting married is bad, it is wonderful if you get married to your best friend. Sometimes I feel very lonely and have no one to console me when things are down for me, no one says well done when things are going smoothly,” he said.- See more at: http://www.lailasblog.com/2016/01/no-more-marriage-for-me-solomon-akiyesi.html#more
He told Saturday Beats that it
was not time for him to open up the can of worms that led to the failure of his
marriages. The actor was also quick to add that he loved and respected African
women but the few bad eggs have spoilt the good ones.
Akiyesi hinted that his last marriage almost made him lose his dignity.
Akiyesi hinted that his last marriage almost made him lose his dignity.
“It is not that black women are
bad but to get married, one must be able to find a woman that would also be
willing to sacrifice love too. It is not a one-sided thing. Find someone who is
ready to love you the way you love them back. It is a beautiful thing to get
married to such people but when you are the one doing the loving and the
running around, then there is always a problem. The day you are not able to
provide, there would always be a bigger problem. My fans should expect more of
professionalism from me in my career; nobody should expect marriage because I
am very happy alone. My previous marriage took a lot from me and it almost took
away my dignity. I am not bothered with house chores, besides I am not a lazy
man,” the actor said.
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